Marriage V/S Waistline...

"It seems marriage is bad for the waistline-while WOMEN are most likely to gain weight after tying the knot, MEN tend to pile on the pounds following a break-up, says researchers". It it love or neglect of health or the happiness that elates out in the course of contentment!!!

My personnel view on marriage: Its the bonding of two souls; the highest attainment of commitment...to hold each other and be there right from the start till the end of life. It takes a lot of mental readiness for such a lasting commitment and the one who desires so unfolds himself/herself into the dual character role in the play of life...

The waistline question??? Is it the love and care that each share with the other...or the undue satisfaction of togetherness... or the happiness that bulges out over the waistline... I have often seen couples feeding each other over their own share/plate... a bite or a morsel, rather a morsel of love, a bite of care...to be added... an ice cream treat in odd hours, dinner over a candlelight shade or an authentic lunch in the partner's favorite restaurant. It takes it all...

 When love is in the air.. waistline is not the question. the happiness and the fulfillment you feel matters the most in life in the long run...

दुइ आत्मा एक सोचाई

दुइ मुटु एक धर्कन...

My heart sinks low of and on. My bottled-up emotions yet to b filled before the burst... My "emotions", a confusion! "My emotions" play a very dangerous role and sometimes deceives too... It knows what is the reality of my heart yet its scared of the unknown. 

my heart unopened...

Date: 5th Sept 2011

In past, we become slave because someone dominates you, your thoughts.

In present, we ourselves make life slavish. How? look at in your daily routine mirror.

We work 15 hrs a day but never spend 15 hrs/month in sports, hiking, art.

We take minimum vacation to assure that our work does not suffer.

We work in evenings and miss beautiful sunset.

We work late night ( work? sometimes “time pass” to reduce stress) and miss sunrise, flowers and soothing breeze of early morning.

We arrange corporate dinner but never sit with parents or children for dinner daily.

And we repeat this everyday under the control of almighty called “TIME”  with fix schedules, reminders and same patterns of emails.

Recurrence of repetitions - A sophisticated slavery.Which goes on..

It would be great if we feel that there is life out of reminders, alerts, emails, IMs, work, business meetings.

Wealth generation is necessity of life but it has now become a shit of the life that you work for it like a slave...